Thoughts On Some Problems

Something that should be recognized is that people don't really have a sense of humor. People seem to take offence easily. Like apparently if people are gay or maybe if they're just strange in some way. These things should not offend anyone. Or even if someone has religious values. Why does this matter? All that should matter to anyone is everyone is a person and each person should be loved equally. Whether you love someone or despise them you should be loving to them. They appreciate that and it feels good to be appreciated. Now the issue of compliments is also very clear in this stupid world of ours. When you are complimented you at least say thank you. Keep your thoughts of "no I'm not" somewhere else. There is no reason why one should have to try and convince.your awesomeness. You need only to accept it even if you feel this is very wrong. Yes I sometimes have troubles with this. It is hard to accept things but we.need to try much harder than we ever are or will. Its a good skill. And those people that think they're more than anyone can be? Those people are usually in some way insecure to be able to think that. Otherwise they really are arrogant jerks and that's OK we don't need to love them up close. Which brings me to another point that brings in a fantastic and hard to read book "Th1rteen R3asons Why". It brings the story of why a girl killed herself. Its because people are stupid and inconsiderate. You don't realize what your words may mean to someone. You never really know what a person is thinking until they tell you. And if you're in highschool its hard enough without the rumors and looking down upon for things such as being pregnant. That's what its for. Specifically it really is although there is some false protection. You just need to love them that much more. These problems are very personal indeed but if you can help some in need of a friend because they are annoying then be that encouragement.

Me in 3D

What is this world but a tiny mind trying to figure out why, where and when with every little i thing it comes across? This annoying mess of what the hell is going around and killing the cells in our heads that help us think and consume those ideas of teachers and people around us. What if we just sat in a corner and quieted our thoughts. Oh is this difficult? Are your thoughts rampaging around no matter what you do? Is this the same with me? Extremely and definitely. Its part of why I have this blog to pour out my ideas and how I see the world around me. And what if I stopped this writing? Would people care? I think not because no one seems to think of my ideas as either good or they're afraid that I may be a violent person. I am quite the opposite I've been told and I look and act extremely sweet but I have quite a temper that apparently none can see. I think alot although its 'much ado about nothing' and no one gets me quite. People may try. They may say they do but that's because they see what's on the outside and hear what I say. Only the things out loud. I'm not always permitted to speak of what's really going on in my life or what I think of people problems. Not everyone believes as I do and I respect that they have their own thoughts but that never means my thoughts and feeling aren't as important as I may think. Now everyone's thoughts are very important for all to know whether they are relevant to a situation or about the nonsense of love that people think they know of. Many people think of love as lust and only lust its quite normal a bit more than that. And everyone also hate things so unintelligently. All say they hate mostly because it "isn't free choice" or whatever. You are the one putting that cage around yourself. Its you choice whether or not you do anything or nothing. Its your choice to be nice or mean to everyone. My choice is trying hard to appreciate all I see and love the people around me. I've been called the nicest person in the world and an angel. I am nowhere near being such. Just because you see outward doesn't mean I'm not thinking certain things. I've also been called very mean by a few people and those people make me want to kick em. But it also makes me want to be better.

The Nature

You look at the things that society says is beautiful. The looks of people. The cars. The shallowness of all around us. Real beauty in some eyes is trees, the dirt, the friends and only those that have the true memories and the true feeling of this length of time. But the trees so big are just some of the most beautiful things in the world. The leaves, the sunlight, the grumbling water, the winds whisper, just the melody of nature that sings although quietly, just enough for anyone to hear that is willing to listen to their stories of what has been really going on in the world. They tell of those stories that may appear in a text book but also those beautiful melodies of sadness turned joy when they learned of love. When they learned of such things that are only learned in time.

Choices

Everyone has a choice. Whether you're going to be Christian or not. Us Christians, we are no where near perfect no matter how perfect they seem or may tell you because they're supposedly "humble". No matter who you are you have a choice. You always may do those things you want. No one will get that you have a choice when you're a Christian. I suppose people think we do everything perfect and arrogant? We are so very not perfect and should never be those arrogant people but some chose to. Some choose to be quiet and actually humble but alot think they need to do a big something to flash to the world that they're Christian but they're 'ok'. Those people that tell alot of people that God doesn't love them, they are lying and blind and very deceived. They couldn't be more wrong. GOD loves everyone not matter what. He may become disappointed in our decisions but that never means he hates us. He loves everyone more than anyone knows. But whether or not we believe in God is a choice and never a restrictions as some may make it seem. I love you all with all my heart.

What Friendships Aren't, But Should Be

Friends aren't things to use and abuse. The are people to trust and respect. People are not things to kick out no matter how old or rich or young or poor. They are beings to be loved and cared for for no. price. Friendship is not something to be taken for granted. Its something to cherish because you may not have it tomorrow or in a few years. Don't throw it in the trash and expect it to be fine. Friendship is a very serious thing that should never be broken for any reason. Its something to keep close, to be joyful for, to think "I can't wait to see ..." whoever that friend is. You have to work at being that friend that is exciting for someone to see. To love and be loved and to try and deserve it. I love you guys!

Others First

The world is by no means about me. Its about others and how I may help although people sometimes seem to not want help when they really need it. This world believes that its "all about me" but we should realize that this creates fights the are quite ridiculous. If we all tried helping others and decided to think of others first then some of the worlds problems might disappeared and life could maybe the littlest bit more peaceful which is definitely better than nothing. I am not saying no one is self reliant. There are those people but we should accept help even if we don't need it. Just to let you know, people are more important than the cars, animals and food. They're more important than anything you could think of except God, The Creator. I love you dear important people no matter what the world labels you as, it really doesn't matter, its what's on the inside that counts.