My One Question

My one question. How are you able to think you're a great person without sounding arrogant? I cannot find a way for this to be possible. I cannot see how you can seem just genuinely thrilled with yourself without seeming to love yourself too much. Is there a way to think yourself positively brilliant without spoiling joy of someone? Brilliant in the way that I am great as myself, as a person that people may think I am. That's one of the only things that bother me. I'd love to think of myself better but I extremely don't want to be arrogant or to be thought of as arrogant. That would be a terrible thing indeed.