The Differences, The Differences...

Did you know a lot or people don't know the difference between being in love and being in serious like. I think you have to know the person to really "be in love" with them. Of course there are those times when you know when its "the One" but that's different. You aren't in love with the person. You just know they are the one for you. And when you get to know each other, you realise more of how you were meant for each other and you can fall in love. Of course a sad thing about people nowadays is they fall into seriously like because of a persons appearance and they get married thinking "if this doesn't work I can just divorce and start over again." Divorce isn't so easy. Its heart breaking. Not only for me but for the people that go through with it. Its one of the saddest developments of this country. You think its easy and quick, which it isn't. Its slow and hard especially for the person that actually wants to get back together. People get divorced because the male was immature sometimes. That is one of the stupidest things I've ever heard. Just grow together. Work things out! Some people divorce because they fight all the time and because of their differences. Seriously? You fight all the time because you differences? Work it out BECAUSE of your differences! Your differences will help you see things that the other can't. Just calmly tell your other what you're thinking may work and if they don't like that, come up with other solutions instead of fighting. Your other should do the same. Some people divorce because of kids. You should be staying together because of yours children! They need both mother and father to teach them life as you know so that when they try to tackle it they can be prepared. Don't spoil them though because then they'll grow up terribly. Just teach them what you know as right and wrong. There are so many reasons that people decide to get divorced, it makes me sick. Its a terrible thing to even think about. You become one flesh when you get married. Breaking that apart is tearing you away from your own flesh. Stop. It hurts. Just calm down and find a good solution. Stop being so American.