Working Together?

A lovely thing that seems more than enough to keep us happy for only a short time. A short time that seems like forever until something ends it. Whether a break up or a death, it's short lived because one decides that attration is the ultimate part of a relationship. Only then does the other say they'll do anything to get them back. That's when the advantages are taken and the heart is broken into a million more pieces. What if we relied more on trust? Or at least respect. No this is never only one gender's thing to do. It always goes both ways. Men do it one way, women do it another, but when you look at it it's somewhat the same. The woman takes advantage of a man just as a man takes advantage of a woman. I hate that men are dissed because supposedly they're evil while women are sexy. Women give that permission by trying too hard to sexy and that's why men act like "Dogs". Can't we decide to love someone for more than the legs or the eyes or anything physical? Can't we see past that filth and hear whether or not someone, or something, will last? Whether it's worth it to really care deeply about a person? Can't you just talk about what you don't like and work it out? Don't beat each other up whether it be through physical or emotional means. Work together. Try to at least and see what happens.