What Are Bad Friends?

You have friends in your life that you know will stay friends. You also have those people in your life that stay in a gray area for at least a moment before they become anything either serious and they leave. For me, it's hard when anyone leaves. When someone leaves, my dreams of a bright future together with this person (be it friendship or relationship-wise) is shattered into a million pieces. My heart is broken but I have to move on. It is interesting to me that I am the way I am, sometimes. I mean, when I lose a friend or a potential soul mate, sometimes I try to prove to them that I could be better. Other times I feel like telling them about how wonderful my life is (or could be in the future without them) so that they might be jealous and possibly want me back. Both are terrible for me, do you know why? It is because both stress me out. Both take more work than just relieving myself of this duty I feel to do either. Why do I feel this why? Why might anyone feel this way? Well, for me, I am a lonely creature looking for love in 'all the wrong places' which almost seems to be what everyone does. But why? Because we see it in society, movies, hear it in music, read it in books and everyone tells us that is the right way to do whether they tell us directly or in a round about way. It's the drama that everyone puts themselves into. Not everyone tries to but some people do and it seems they try to make the rest of the world their bitch as they walk around, proud of this drama they have created for everyone else. It's exhausting. It even makes me almost want to pant from the exhaustion that it gives me from thinking about it. I look around and see these people, my question to them is why? Why are you putting us and yourself through so much pain? Why can't we all just get along instead of your making life so difficult? Why can't you make more sense when you speak about things(I mean when some people full of drama make up arguments, they don't always make sense. Yet, some listen to them anyway and argue back. How much sense does that make?)? Well. What I can do, and what we all can do, is stop talking to them. They are looking for any attention and the attention you give them is enough. I see it everywhere. If you stop giving each drama soul attention, they may disappear (maybe not in the sense of them killing themselves because I don't believe that'd solve any problems. I'm only saying maybe they'll be more productive with their lives as humans and stop trying to bug everyone for attention.). I'm not saying hate these people, I'm not saying kick them out and under a bus. I'm only saying they need good attention which a lot of people don't get. Everyone needs the good attention, even you and me. Give that good attention so you may receive it as well. It feels really good both ways. Now I say to you, goodbye and see you all on the other side.